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Sexual fantasies are an intriguing subject...and not only men have them. The truth is, women have them too, but they
are limited to three general types. Women can be just as sexual as a man if he learns what fantasy buttons to push.
In order to arouse a woman's fantasies, it takes a little work. First of all, when you set out to stimulate your partner,
you need to narrow your focus down to the three specific types of fantasies: 1. Women with women, 2. Women in Control, and
3. Sexually insatiable.
Too often, when using fantasies, men include the things that turn themselves on rather than what arouses a woman. Unfortunately,
this is the quickest way to turn a woman off. Women have specific requirements in their fantasies, primarily, a slow building
pace before and after the sex act. As a matter of fact, the non-sexual touching is equally arousing to a woman. When using
fantasies with your partner, Sexual fantasies can serve many purposes. They can induce sexual desire, maintain sexual
arousal, enhance the sexual experience, trigger an orgasm, and preserve a memory.
Many people worry about their fantasies being too "kinky", but such fantasies are really quite common. Unusual fantasies
can help maintain arousal and are harmless if there is no compulsion to actually experience an act that would be emotionally
or physically harmful to oneself or to others. Whereas honesty is usually the best policy, discretion must be used in the
sharing of some unusual fantasies or fantasies involving other people. It is rare that a couple can share such deep, dark,
private thoughts without, at best, a little discomfort. Too often the reaction upon hearing a partner's most kinky fantasy
is one of jealousy or distrust, if not anger and disgust.
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